Global Dating Solution | A informational site for men containing the latest stats facts and expert opinion on the topic of international dating and meeting foreign women

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Greetings Gentlemen! Welcome to Global Dating Solution

Are you tired of the unattainability, unavailability or lack of women you desire, depriving you of quality female companionship?

If so, then you have come to the RIGHT PLACE! I have GOOD NEWS for you:

The problem is NOT you.

There is a REAL SOLUTION and it's simple! The solution is GLOBAL DATING!

Let’s face it, dating and relationships in the USA are a no-win nightmare for many men.

In the US, it seems that every decent-looking female is either taken, super picky (cause they think they are too good for everyone), or not even looking, hence leaving a large percentage of single males out of luck. Having too many choices,they become super picky and reject 99 % of their admirers. To make matters worse, they believe that they don't even need men, thus you are unwanted and unnecessary to them. Corrupted by feminism and narcissism, many of them are cynical, critical and very judgemental, and lack the positive qualities of the feminine.They tend to have an off the chart sense of entitlement leading to overly high dating standards.

Furthermore, there exists a cultural meme of disdain towards men. Women see them as fools, creeps and predators. As such, they are unapproachable, uptight, paranoid, and see flirting as creepy and offensive.They harbor an inner resistance toward relationships with men. Men do not feel wanted, and niceness counts for nothing.

In addition, stats show that in America today, single men outnumber single women by 15-20% . Fact is, there are more dateless males in America than there is in any other country today. It's gotten so bad that it's not even worth your time to try anymore. The choices just aren't there. Thus, America has become a "dysfunctional dating hell" beyond words for men.

Hi. I’m Steve Neese, founder of Global Dating Solution. This is not a dating site. I am not selling anything. This is an INFORMATION site only. My sole passion in creating this site is to help solve a HUGE epedemic of lonliness that exists in America today by raising mens’ awareness of the factors that make America one of the worst dating scenes on Earth for men. I do so by quoting FACTS, STATS, and EXPERT OPINION.

I also want to help men shed the powerful cultural stereotypes, stigma, and biases which may be holding them back from considering global dating as a real solution to their dating problems in the US. With this purpose in mind, I completely debunk and fully disprove the most commonly held cultural stereotypes about foreign women such as “they just want a greencard” or “they are just after your money”. Unfortunately, such ignorant stereotypes play a significant role in giving men doubt about the legitimacy of International dating. This is causing many men to miss out on the happiness in life that they truly deserve.

My passion and inspiration to create this site occurred when I traveled abroad and was blown away by how women overseas were so amazingly different compared to my experiences with most women here in the US. I was blown away by how even the most hot and gorgeous women were so sweet, friendly, HUMBLE, and completely approachable. And unlike in the US, one could sense that these women NEEDED men and were interested in meeting them too! Because of this, they also initiate flirtation, which never happens to me in the US.

And for those who argue that it's only because I was a foreigner or tourist and they just wanted a green card or my money, I counter with this one simple fact - I noticed that women behaved the same way with the local men too! This made me realize it's just their nature. The science even agrees with this conclusion, (about it being their nature), as within this site is a study that found that American women are the 2nd least flirtatious in the world! When a man steps foot outside of America, (if he goes as a single man) he can sense this difference. In fact, even the most beautiful and sexy women (i.e.MODEL LOOKING WOMEN!) don't think they are too good for everyone like so many American women would do. As Winston Wu of happierabroad once said, “In the American singles scene, I find that for the most part , the only women who are friendly and somewhat approachable are the overweight and unattractive ones. And for a man who is interested in meeting beautiful women, that just sucks!" In my opinion, no truer words have ever been spoken.

Within this site, I intend to show why your dating success depends mostly upon one thing, and one thing only,....location location location. I intend to show you why environment is more important than seduction skills, looks, sophistication, education, Alpha Male traits, “game,” charm, charisma, body language, pick-up lines, cockiness, or wealth when it comes to dating success. What American men do not realize is that if you are an average decent Western male, you are GOLD and a BIG CATCH to millions of thin, beautiful, approachable, down-to-earth, authentic, feminine women all over the world. In fact, you can be below average in looks, shy and poor, and these extraordinary women will still be fighting over one another to get to you.

The secondary reason I created this site for was to help men understand the reasons why foreign women generally make better relationship and marriage partners. (Not to say in every case, but only as a general rule as there are always exceptions). This is especially true if you plan to have a successful marriage. For example, most American men are surprised to hear that statistics show that there is only a 20% divorce rate between American men and foreign women vs the 50-60% divorce rate in American domestic marriages. I explain the reasons for this divorce rate difference in depth throughout this site by quoting leading US experts, social psychologists, and by providing real life examples.

QUESTION: WHY IS A GLOBAL DATING SITE FOCUSING SO MUCH ON AMERICAN CULTURE?

Although most of the material within this site consists of expert quotes about what has become of today's American women, it is also full of material about America and American culture in general. While this subject on American culture itself may initially seem to veer off from the main subject of International dating, it is very key to understanding all the factors that are working against you (as a man) within the US dating scene. You must keep in mind that most people are bi products of the following two things:

1) Their upbringing - as taught by their parents

2) Their culture. It is my belief that the culture of narcissism and feminism have molded the average American woman into what she is today. Though, to be clear, I am not suggesting that ALL American women have these traits nor am I suggesting that ALL foreign women are free of such traits. I am talking in generalities only. And lastly, as the “research” seems to suggest (research conducted by Dr. Jean Twenge) , the narcissism with women in America is mostly found in those women born after 1967. This is what Dr Jean Twenge's research seems to conclude as stated in her book.

IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER

And for those who think I am too negative about America (and the American dating scene and American women), I want to re iterate a few statements made by Winston Wu of happier abroad because they precisely describe the way I feel too:

“Now, don't get me wrong, I love America, the principles it was found upon, and all that it stands for, as well as the great things it's done in the world. But the reality is that for me and many men, America has the WORST social and dating scene in the world."

"Just because I make a lot of undesirable observations about American life and culture, doesn't make me negative, in my view. I am merely being honest with how I feel, what I've experienced here, and what I see. Why should I lie and pretend to be positive, just to appease the masses? I don't believe in lying to fit in. I'd rather be honest and negative, than dishonest and appear positive. Deep down, it's a matter of values and integrity.”

“Now, to those of you reading this who wish to accuse me of over-generalizing in my observations, my observations and descriptions here do NOT refer to all Americans nor all American women, but to GENERAL PATTERNS only. I get tired of repeating that all the time, so please don’t forget this as you read this material."

MY MEDIA CENTER

See my guest speaking appearances with these media famous dating agencies

1. Steve “The Professor” Neese Delivers the Facts and Stats on Dating at Home vs Overseas

2. International dating experts and researchers Winston Wu and Steve Neese join host John Adams for an in-depth discussion of the numerous aspects of international dating, relationships and marriages
*My appearances occur at the following time markers: (3:44 to 4:24) (11:08 to 11:24) (19:41 to 27:52) (38:00 to 39:32)

3. See this Today show interview where both my interviewers (Mark Davis of European Dream Connections and John Adams of Foreign Affair) are interviewed together on the today show

4. My very first Interview on the subject of Internationanl dating on the roller Steve show

http://www.happierabroad.
com/Steve_Interview_July_
2010.mp3

10 Things Most Americans Don’t Know About America

Recommended Global dating sites

www.happierabroad.com
www.globaldatingrevolution.com
www.singledudetravel.com
www.nomarriage.com
europeandreamconnections.com
http://www.rooshv.com/
http://goglobaldating.com/ www.wws.com

Educational Videos

Ex serviceman talks Foreign vs American women

Steve Hoca interviews Larry Elterman about love and dating in the Philippines

News report - study finds American women 2nd least flirtatious in the world!!

Lou Dobbs of CNN reports – women realizing feminism has failed them ?

News piece on Russia’s 10 million man shortagee

Bill Maher - Whats is so rotten at the core about America

Cultural Comparison Chart

US vs. ABROAD

As presented by Winston WU of www.happierabroad.com and expanded upon by Steve Neese

Warning: These comparisons are taboo and politically incorrect and may offend some!

America in General	Most Other Countries in General
America is a country built for doing business not for living life. People live to work. Life has no meaning without work. One is defined by their economic function.	People work to LIVE! In Europe, Latin America and Australia, people live for experiences and adventure.
America's hyper individualistic culture promotes selfishness which leads to a less happy and less content populace. Despite it’s relative affluence, America ranks poorly in world happiness surveys (often failing to break the top 10) because individualism, materialism, and serving yourself are dead ends.	Cultures are more communal and act for the greater good. This creates purpose, and leads to more fulfillment and contentment in life. Many 3rd world countries rank high on world Happiness surveys. Consider this BBC News report on world happiness where Nigeria ranked # 1 in happiness and many 3rd world countries ranked well ahead of the U.S.
Americans are becoming materialistic, entitled and narcissistic. The culture teaches that happiness comes from material "posessions". Studies show that Americans score highest in the world on narcissism tests.	People are not obsessed with consumerism. They understand that money and things are not the key to happiness. Narcissism is low. Modesty and humblness is high.
Cost of living crazily expensive.	Cost of living affordable or cheap.
Too many women are selfish entitlement queens.	Women are humble and appreciative. They express gratitude for even the smallest things you do for them.
Women are least likely to remain friends with their exes. They typically cease all contact , remain bitter, and treat him like a mortal enemy to be chastised and avoided at all costs.	Women tend to remain friends with their X’s, harboring no ill will or resentfulness towards them.
Gangsta-worshipping thug culture.	Centuries of amazing history.
People are segregated/isolated and paranoid of each other.Going out alone means staying alone. Americans are uncomfortable talking to strangers and see it as abnormal, awkward, and intrusive (unless its business-related). We've all heard of the common American phrase "Breaking the ice" referring to initiating contact with strangers.	People are more open, inclusive and connected. There is an instant familiarity between strangers rather than an ice barrier. People do not have a "keep out" wall or vibe around them.
Default ice barrier between strangers. Every man is an island. People are polite but distant. Lack of human connection. One feels "alone" amongst crowds.	Social atmosphere more natural and inclusive. One doesn't feel alone even when physically alone. For an example of this ethos in play, listen to this recording of a bar I made while in Lima Peru. Note how complete strangers are singing together? Have you ever witnessed such comradery in any American bar?
Friendships are superficial and fleeting. People drift apart easily. Few people stick through thick and thin. It’s no wonder why one of the common cultural sayings in America is “good friends are hard to find”	Friendships are deeper and truer, more like the kind you see in Disney movies and stories.
Smiles and greetings are fake, artificial and contrived.	Smiles are genuine if people choose to show one.
One must always pretend that everything is going great and that one is always "having a great day", even if it's not true.	One is not required to always pretend that everything is great. One is allowed to feel whatever one truly feels.
Social psychologists claim that American culture has become one of competitiveness, superiority and one-upmanship. This competitive vibe makes one feel fragmented, stressed, alone and insecure. The result is a society (that statistics show) leads the world in mental illness such as Anxiety and Depression, % of its citizenry incarcerated, bullying, road rage, and mass shootings (America accounts for 60% of the world’s mass shootings) . Incivility is at an all time high.	Natural vibe makes one feel at ease with themselves and others, allowing you to "be yourself". One feels more authentic, whole, and accepted for who you are. Many Americans report better mental health and personal fulfillment during time spent abroad
Human relationships feel artificial and superficial, mostly based on usefulness.	Human relationships feel truer and more natural, based on a feeling of "shared connection"
Meeting people restricted to cliques, school and work. The average person does not know many people and their dating choices are very limited.	Meeting people is not restricted to cliques, school and work. The average person knows more people and their dating prospects are wider with more choices.
Women are conditioned to despise men and look down on them as fools, predators and criminals.	Women respect and need men. They love to provide support and tenderness to their man.
Females do not want to look or act feminine. Too many are spoiled, self-centered, and undisciplined.	Females are proud to be look, act, and dress feminine. They are sweet and affectionate.
Single men outnumber single women. (Possibly due to large influx of male immigrant workers) Many studies and statistics confirm this. This results in a more competitive dating environment for men.	In poorer countries, single women outnumber single men, giving men more choices and forcing more competition among women, thus giving men the upper hand and keeping women less spoiled, more feminine and beautiful.
Women have too many choices and become super picky, rejecting 99 percent of their admirers. They think they are too good for everyone and have unrealistic standards.	Women value good men and do not think that everyone is not good enough for them. They are more down to earth and real about themselves and others.
Attractive women always unavailable. Every attractive girl you meet tells you that she's taken or not looking.	You can always find attractive girls around who tell you they are single and available.
Women tend to be cold, reserved, defensive, paranoid, and stuck up toward male strangers (except for women who are old, unattractive or very poor). As a result, trying to meet them feels awkward, unnatural, and inappropriate.	Women are very open and receptive. There is no paranoid fear of men as dangerous or predatory. Nor is there a "men as creeps" ethos. For these reasons, meeting them occurs more naturally and in the flow.
Most women are overweight. Those that aren't are considered hot and nearly unattainable, as everyone wants them. So the choices for men suck.	Overweight women are rare. Height and weight proportionate is the norm. So you can take it for granted that the females you meet will be too.
Dating is unnatural and a constant uphill battle. You have to have "game" or master "techniques" to try to get women, or wait forever to "get lucky".	Dating occurs naturally and mutually - meeting, flirting, expressing interest, holding hands, kissing, etc. happens naturally with the flow.
Quality attractive single women without emotional baggage or issues are rare or unattainable.	Quality attractive single women without emotional baggage or issues are common.
Women have an inner resistance toward relationships with men. Their subconscious attitude repels attachment to men.	Women dream and long for a man to capture their heart whom they can love, support and cherish. For example, See these Filipina dating profile samples where this spirit of dreaming and longing for a man is very evident but yet completely absent from American women profiles
Attractive girls cannot hold a real intelligent conversation. They act like airheads and have few interests. You have to "play games" to keep their attention.	Attractive girls can hold a normal intelligent conversation and are down to earth. Interacting with them feels natural. They have more interests.
Sex and getting laid with attractive women is difficult or near impossible.	Sex and getting laid with attractive women comes more naturally.
Man-hating culture induces hatred of masculinity and men to act less masculine.	Culture and women admire and respect men and masculinity.
Men do not feel appreciated, wanted or needed.	Men feel appreciated, admired, wanted and needed.
Niceness is not rewarded. It is seen as a weakness to trample on. Women see it as weak, needy and desperate.	Niceness from men is appreciated and rewarded. It counts and wins actual points with women.
American women often treat abusive men better than they treat nice men. They will give abusive partners multiple chances but show no interest in being with a nice guy. Morbidly, in theory, you have better odds of getting a second chance with an American woman by throwing her out of a moving car than by being nice to her.	Being nice is a quality that counts, is appreciated and reciprocated.
People you meet online are usually overweight and unattractive, or losers with dysfunctional personalities. Experiences are almost always negative. Attractive women use them just to enjoy the attention. The gender imbalance of 60% men and 40% women puts men at a HUGE disadvantage.	It is common to meet quality sincere people online, including attractive females. There is no loser stigma associated with it. Experiences are usually positive, whether there is a "love connection" or not.
Co-workers don't usually eat together during lunch, but go their separate ways.	Co-workers usually eat together and congregate in a spirit of camaraderie.
Healthcare costs overpriced and out of control, many are not covered. International studies conclude that the American healthcare system is among the worst in the entire world due to lack of general public access. Only the rich and affluent can truly afford it. Statistics show U.S. life expectancy rates as ranking very low ranging from 42nd to 50th in the world. Statistics also show that most bankruptcies in the U.S. are due to medical bills despite the fact that MOST had health insurance coverage.	Healthcare costs are a fraction of what they are in the US, and either affordable or free. Because of this, the citizenry is not one medical event away from being totally wiped out.
Foods are fatty, artificial, unhealthy, and contain processed white flour. Organic foods are expensive which only the rich can afford.	Food is more natural and wholesome. Even cheap food is usually healthy and organic, the equivalent of expensive health food in the US. You don't have to go to expensive health food stores to eat healthy like you do in the US.
Going out alone makes you look like a loser to others, and you stay alone.	Going out alone is ok and it is easy to meet people in casual public places.
When you move to a new place in the US, it can take months or years (or never) just to find a few regular friends.	When you go to a new place, making new friends is immediate, natural and part of the flow of things.
A man is not allowed to signal interest in a woman unless she signals her interest first, or he will come across as creepish, perverted and inappropriate.	A man is allowed to signal interest in a woman first and expected to pursue her, and if he does it in a good manner, he comes across as charming and flattering.
An ever growing number of people don't bother to make time for their friends or relatives.	People make time for their friends, family and relatives, no matter how busy they are.
When you have a mental/emotional breakdown, most or all of your friends will not want to hear about it, so you have to pay a therapist who doesn’t really even care. Taking anti depressants or anti anxiety medications is very common and widespread. Statistics show that the US leads the world in these psychiatric conditions which just reflects how pychologically unhealthy the American culture truly is. Immigrants even comment about this being one of the biggest surprises about American culture.	When people have problems or feel down, they have MANY close friends and relatives to confide in. Seeing a mental health professional or taking anti anxiety and antidepressant medications is mostly unheard of.
American kids tend to be spoiled and undisciplined. They do not respect their parents or each other, but mock and downplay them. Any casual observer can see this. They rarely see their parents after they reach adulthood.	Kids respect their parents and each other more than their American counterparts do. They remain close to their parents into adulthood and take care of them.
Families are not harmonious. They are a group of people with competing self-interests. Individual needs are placed over the family. Most families are not close knit, with most families only visiting each other during the holidays. The American Divorce rate is the highest in the entire world at 50 - 60%!	Families are more harmonious and agreeable. Each member considers the family's needs, not just their own. Families are much closer and in constant contact. Families show a willingness to help each other more than American families do. Divorce rates are far less than in the US.
People are generally anti-social, don‘t talk to strangers, don‘t know their neighbors. (They only politely nod or smile in passing), and have an isolation mentality that makes them PREFER being alone.	People are socially inclusive and do not have a isolationist mentality. People usually know about their neighbors' lives, and invite them over for get togethers.
If you lose everything - your job, savings, house, etc. - and hit rock bottom, no one will care about you or be there for you. You will be on your own and turn into a bum. In the US it's every man for himself. No one cares for the befallen.	If you lose everything and hit rock bottom, you have a network of family and friends that will help you and care for you that you can fall back on. In additon, other industrialized countries make up for comparatively lower wages with subsidized public services in health care, housing, child care, and public transportation.
Women are sensitive to age in the dating game. American dating sites reflect this as most woman cap the age limit of their desired match at a maximum of 4 years their senior	Women are not age sensitive in the dating game. Age differences are not judged. In many countries, a 45 year old man can flirt or date with a 20 yr old woman without it being seen as pathetic , creepy, or perverted.
Typical female dating profiles say they "want" a man who will "compliment" them. Many feel the need to "shout" their independence and state that they dont need a man	Typical Dating profiles say they "need" a man who will "complete" them. Women never feel the need to announce their independence nor do they go out of their way to state that they dont need a man.
Americans do not look very happy, but appear grumpy, irritable, overweight, and stressed out (always hurried). Foreigners who observe American tourists abroad often comment that many Americans behave like spoiled adult children describing them as impatient, demanding, whiney, easy to complain, and prone to temper tantrums. In fact, most Americans would be surprised to learn that we Americans have a similar reputation (in addition to being the least desired clientele) amongst overseas call center reps also. That speaks volumes!.	People seem more happy and content even if poor. Lifestyles are not stressed and hurried. People are patient and understanding. There are no public temper tantrums when things don’t go their way.

Every country has a different set of pros and cons.

Pros of the USA - clean air, clean water, clean land, clean national parks, high quality infrastructure, a non corrupt police force, plenty of consumer choices, excellent customer service etc.

But on the other hand, the US has:

The highest mental illness rates in the industrialized world. This speaks volumes about how insane and unnatural the culture must be. No other country has such a huge mental health industry. In fact, most foreign immigrants will tell you that one of the biggest surprises they encounter upon moving to America is the extent to which mental illness (i.e depression and anxiety) is so widespread. Taking psycho-pharmaceuticals and seeing therapists is unheard of and extremely rare in most other cultures.
The highest rates of obesity in the world. Whatever the reasons, this makes it hard to find an attractive girl and getting one very difficult, driving up the competition to insane levels! It also means that there is something very unhealthy about our food and lifestyle.
The most expensive healthcare in the world. Seeing a doctor shouldn't cost an arm and a leg! It's a lot more affordable in other countries.
The highest prison population in the world. This speaks volumes about the insanity and dyfunctionality of US society.
A very high cost of living. This forces one to have to work more and suffer more stress in order to pay off bills, rent, mortgage, debt. etc.
A huge lack of human connection. People live in psychological bubbles in a society of social isolation. Neighbors don't usually talk to each other or invite each other over.
The highest loneliness rate in the world. Many have no one to talk to about their problems, so they have to pay a therapist who doesn't even really care.
A dating scene that is insanely difficult for men. There is a huge dating epidemic where millions of males can't get any dates or female companionship. Women are too picky, have difficult personalities, become unfeminine, harbor hateful attitudes toward men, are flaky and flighty. There is a lack of quality single women, and overcompetition abounds among single men, which outnumber single women. The culture and media have destroyed healthy relationships, femininity and turned women against men with an engineered "battle of the sexes" (which doesn't exist in other countries) which divides men and women, and further escalates the loneliness/social isolation epidemic.
Too much fakeness in people. The US has some of the fakest people in the world, especially among the young crowd and in the coastal areas (CA and NY). It's hard to find authentic, genuine, down-to-earth people, unlike overseas.

In contrast, in most other countries, though not all:

Cost of living is much lower and much more affordable. Well in most countries that is (except UK and Japan).
Healthcare is much more affordable and even free in some countries. People don't get bankrupted by healthcare costs like they do in the US.
Food is much more organic and natural. In Europe, food is much more natural and so there is no need for expensive organic health food stores like in America.
People are more authentic, down to earth and easier to meet. They are more open with strangers. The social atmosphere is more inclusive. You can meet people even if you go out alone, whereas in the US if you go out alone, you stay alone. I've met people in Europe in restaurants. They are easy to chat up and will invite you to sit with them.
The social atmosphere is not as judgmental or competitive. Thus you do not constantly feel insecure about yourself as you do in the US. This isn't as big of an issue if you are older, but it applies mostly to Gen X and Y, who grew up with insecurity their whole lives, never feeling accepted for themselves, thus developing inferiority complexes. Case in point: Blacks and Asians in England do not have the inferiority complex that they do in the US.
Most importantly for men, young women are much more friendly and feminine. They are more authentic, natural and down to earth, and easier to talk to and meet. They do NOT have the man-hating "all men are creeps" attitude or put up a bitch shield that many American woman will do when approached by men in public places.

*One catch - in many 3rd world countries, guard your health. Life is cheap outside of the US. No emissions controls whatsoever on toxic industrial waste, undrinkable tap water, and at times there is even unbreathable air. No building standards or no enforcement on existing standards etc... when there is an Earthquake, thousands perish. Guard your health carefully, because these people do not know anything about health in regards to air, water, and soil quality, or abstaining from hard liquor or tobacco (which are consumed throughout all of Europe at a shocking rate). But they have health in regards to social life and love and community, companionship, friendships, and even sex. Anyway, consider your health carefully ouside of the US.