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20 Benefits and Advantages of Foreign Women
Liberating life-changing truths and comparisons
that the US media will NEVER tell you
by Winston Wu of www.happierabroad.com and expanded upon by Steve Neese
There are many important benefits and advantages of Foreign women that the US media will never tell you about due to their taboo nature. But they are wonderful, liberating and life-changing to single North American men. Now, I do not mean to generalize, but there are definite PATTERNS of differences that are very real, obvious and noticeable. So I am here to define them as best I can. (After all, if I told you that people were the same everywhere, then not only would it not be true, but what would be the point of this site?)
These qualities listed below do not apply to ALL foreign women, just as the characteristics I ascribe of American woman on this site do not apply to ALL American woman. But that being said, I would say that these generalities are true of a high percentage of them, if not most.
It is important to note that Global problems such as crime, corruption, economic oppression, and the desire to up one's status are normal and have existed throughout modern history. However, the modern dysfunctional norms with women in America, such as women despising men, not needing them, hating their femininity and trying to be masculine, are abnormal aberrations that have never occurred in human history before. It's only in modern America that women have deviated from them.
These differences matter to men, because deep down, every normal guy prefers these qualities in women- which is not suprising, since after all, these qualities have always been inherent in women throughout human history. Here is a list of them:
- They are much more feminine and proud of it They dress, look and act feminine. They are proud to wear skirts, dresses, high heels, hair bands, and other sweet feminine attire - which many American women find oppressive and degrading because deep down they hate their femininity (without even realizing it -because its been instilled in them via cultural conditioning since birth). When they step off or onto a vehicle or train, they are glad to take a man's hand, whereas most American women are too proud to do that. Even Relationship expert Dr Laura Schlessinger states in her book that Feminsim has molded womens' characters into spoiled and selfish entitlement queens. What American feminists (men as well as women) don‘t realize is that most of the rest of the world, both male and female, does NOT envy their feminism, but in fact despises it, finding it unnatural, distasteful, and unfeminine (ironically). Ask any foreigner. American feminism is rife with hypocrisy, double-standards, and dysfunctionality; yet it pervades all our modern culture, media, talk shows, sitcoms, etc., portraying women as either perpetual victims who can do no wrong, or as creatures with superior rights to men.
- They appreciate and value men. They do not carry disdain, anger, contempt, and a “men as fools” ethos towards men. Nor do they harbor a "men are creeps" attitude - unlike American women who deem every single heterosexual man as a "creep" until he proves otherwise. Deep down, foreign woman seek relationships with men rather than resist them. Men feel more relaxed around foreign women because foreign woman are not defensive or paranoid about men. In addition, all you need to do is visit any American based dating site and peruse female profiles where it is common to see them state “are there any normal guys out there” or “tired of meeting creeps” or “not looking for a creeper type of guy”. You absolutley NEVER , not even once , see a foreign woman make disdainful remarks towards men, especially men as creeps.Foreign women have a natural admiration towards men rather than a deep rooted disdain and contempt towards men that most American women subconscioulsy have towards them. (Dr Laura Schlessinger discusses this fact at length in her books - see proof here disdain and contempt ) Therefore, they tend to bring out the best in a man, rather than the worst.
- They are more authentic, down-to-earth. They appreciate and reciprocate kindness. You do not need any "game" or Pickup artist techniques to meet them. All you have to do is be yourself. As long as you are sincere, decent, down-to-earth, kind, and especially charming, you will do well with foreign women. That's
what foreign women want. Nothing complicated about it, which is the way it should be. American men who discover this about foreign woman find it very refreshing.
- They liberate men psychologically and set them free from insecurity. There is a deeper psychological issue here that is felt by men but not easy to define and put into words. You see, when American males date foreign women, for the first time in their life, they actually feel valued and appreciated for what they are (isn't that what we all want?). This is something guys can't experience in America, where virtually everyone is insecure and trying to mask it, because they do not feel accepted for who they truly are. This is the essence of true confidence - feeling appreciated and accepted for who you are. The general unapproachability of women in the US is what causes many men to develop such pseudo fake confidence personas or the need to artifically “pump” oneself up (which are especially prevalent on the west coast where woman are the most stuck up and unapproachable). Thus, there is a huge psychological mental health benefit that foreign women bring as well, which liberates men and sets them free from the constant feeling of insecurity they've had their whole lives in America.
- They are usually thin or at least height/weight proportionate. . Being overweight is far less common in foreign countries, especially in Asia, Russia and Eastern Europe. As such, females abroad are healthier and slimmer. Outside of the US, there is no obesity epidemic.
- They are a lot more open, approachable, and friendly with strangers which make them easier to meet. In America, the typical unspoken underlying reaction when you approach a woman is “who are you and what do you want”. It often continues as “If you don’t need directions or unless it’s business related, don’t bother me”. These words are not literally spoken of course, but that is the underlying attitude you usually get unless of course you look like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt. As proof of this unapproachability problem, consider the Pick up Artist industry that is thriving in the US (and non existent in other countries). Has anyone ever stopped to ask the obvious question: "Why doesn't the pick up artist industry exist in other countries too?" Think about it, why would such a natural thing like male/female courtship need to be reduced to a "technique" or "science" as though it were a difficult subject that needed to be "mastered"? The reason of course, is that only in the US are woman so unapproachable that there is a true demand and need for pick up artist techniques. Notice how in bars and nightclubs, we witness a tendency for woman to huddle together in groups as a defensive measure in order to avoid having to talk to men. This defensive behaviour is non existent with most woman abroad. Lastly, the following is sad but true – having more money tends to make women less friendly and less social. You see, when woman have less, they are forced to develop more warm and friendly personalities due to their need to be interdependent with others to get by. On the flip side of this equation, the more money women have, the more likely they are to limit their social interaction to closed cliques, and less likely to talk to strangers. They also become less friendly and more picky. That's just the way it is, and it definitely makes dating in first world countries harder and more competitive for guys. Lastly, in many countries where there are man shortages, (i.e. Former soviet states, russia, and Latin America) there just aren‘t enough eligible men for all the women, so the females have to be sweeter and more feminine and develop better qualities in order to compete.
- They find compliments flattering and charming. When you compliment a foreign woman, the result is often shyness, blushing, and sometimes even giggling - traits long gone with American girls - who are too tough and masculine to do that. To the contrary, American women will quite often view such compliments as "creepy” or even “offensive" if it comes from a man whom they dont know (unless of course, it comes from their fictional Mr. Perfect). This makes men in America afraid to approach women in public which is not the case with men in other countries. Ya see, all normal men love it when girls blush and giggle while interacting with them. It lightens the mood and is very sweet, cute, feminine, and attractive to guys. It also makes guys feel young and desirable, like school boys again, which they like as well. Moreover, blushing and giggling are indicative of a sweet, modest, and feminine nature, which men like because it naturally complements them. In short, guys simply feel good around such girls.
- They tend to have better family and marriage values. They have healthier relationships with their families. And they do not have the hate and disdain for their fathers that is common with many American women. What this means is that they will also have better values toward their own family as well. They dream of the husband and family ideal. They seek fulfillment in finding a good man, and provide love, support and companionship to their partner, which makes them good wife material. Another key difference is that foreign woman view their marriage as one, whereas American women tend to view their marriage as two seperate individuals with their own needs and interests. (*not all, but definitely a pattern with most).This means you can trust them more, for they have a stronger sense of commitment and loyalty. Furthermore, they do not come from divorce accepting cultures like ours, hence they are not pre-programmed to think of divorce as a way out. To them, family is everything and they will not give it up without giving their all. They hold the institution of marriage in high esteem and see it as something greater than themselves. In contrast, in individualistic societies such as America, individual happiness takes prescedence over the greater good. It’s therefore of no surprise that the USCIS reports a divorce rate of only 20% between American men and Foreign woman compared to the 50-60% divorce rate between Americans.
- They NEED men. You can clearly see the evidence of this by comparing dating profiles between American and Foreign women. A common theme with American woman profiles is how they stress in their profile how independent they are and how they don’t need a man, but only want a man to compliment them. (But what most people don’t understand is that such an emotionally independent attitude is incompatible with what provokes a man to treat women romantically and commit to them). In comparison, Foreign woman profiles openly state how they Need a man to complete them. These values they harbor is a reflection of a time gone by when “old fashioned” romance was the way things once were in America back in the 50’s. You just never see American woman openly state such desires on their dating profiles which I think is quite sad.
- Even foreign women in industrialized first world countries are nicer and more feminine. Now it is true that foreign women in first world countries - e.g. Western Europe, Taiwan, Japan, Singapore, Hong Kong, etc. - are pickier, have higher standards, and are more independent. And the dating scene in those countries is more competitive too. However, they are still feminine, especially in Asia, and do not try to masculinize themselves. Nor do they harbor disdain or contempt for men. Also, if you are a white male, you are automatically valued in Asia by the pool of Asian women who specifically like white guys. Furthermore, women in Western Europe are far more cultured and authentic, so it's easier to connect with them or befriend them as well (as long as you share their interests), even if they're snobby or not romantically attracted to you. On the other hand, a typical American woman will not even be friends, hang out or have coffee with a guy who is "not her type". (Generally speaking)
- Beauty and brains are the norm in women from Russia, Europe, China, and Latin America. Women in these countries are generally more cultured and intellectually refined with a wider array of interests than the average U.S. woman (with perhaps some exception made for U.S. women in their 40’s or older). Thus, you can find women with beauty and brains everywhere in these countries, even among young girls in their 20's. Any casual interaction with them reveals this to be obvious. A typical 20 year old girl in Russia or Europe, for example, is far more down to earth, speaks more languages, and has more intellectual interests than her counterparts in America. This may not mean much if you are not an intellectual guy yourself, but if you are, then this is good news because it means you will mentally connect with them better. In addition, women from these parts of the world generally have much more variety in their interests and passions, which makes them much more interesting people as well. They have a love for exploring new things, expressing and expanding themselves, and maximizing their experiences and passions in life. The slightest interaction with them reveals this obvious difference compared to their US counterparts. European and Russian women who visit America often report that one of their first impressions is that the women in the U.S. have no real interests (compared to them at least; by their standards). Lastly, one thing that has stood out to me in my travels to South America was that women seemed to be more attuned to manners and proper etiquettes. Simply put, women with beauty and brains is common in many countries abroad.
- Foreign women are easy going, accepting, and non judgmental. They are more relaxed, easy going, and much easier to get along with. They are understanding of life’s hardships and do not judge or criticize a man for these things in the dating game. For example, note how extremely common it is to see many women in America say things on their dating profiles such as “if you don’t have a car, don’t contact me”, “if you cant pay your bills, don’t contact me”, “if you live with mama, don’t contact me”. These are examples of the nasty attitudes of far too many women in America today (not all of them of course). Of course no women wants a loser (That is universal of all women world wide), but foreign women NEVER come off like this. Also, with Asian woman, it's in their nature to be more simple, harmonious, carefree, and to not think too much. This means they will be more forgiving and will not try to complicate things or create drama. To many Western guys, this carefree relaxed attitude is very refreshing and comfortable to be around. Foreign woman in general are not high strung, uptight or easily offended, so you don't feel like you're walking on eggshells around them. Anyone who has dated them can attest to the relaxed environment that this creates.
- They usually remain friends with their exes. Another key thing that reveals a big difference in the attitude of foreign women is that when they break up or get divorced, they will often remain friends with their exes - whereas a typical American woman will remain bitter and treat him like her mortal enemy that is to be chastized and avoided at all costs. (Not all of course, but a definite pattern of this exists with women in America). This indicates that foreign women are inherently good natured whereas deep down, sad to say, many American women are mean-spirited and cold-hearted. It's very sad but true.
- They are less age senstive. Most foreign women PREFER and DESIRE older men! They often seek men 10-20 years their senior. Of course, this isnt true for ALL foreign cultures. But it is indeed true with many, especially with Asians, Latin Americans, and Russians. The reason for this is because these women are hard wired differently than most American women who seem to be focused on youth, excitement, sex appeal, and flash. (i.e the allure of the ole “bad boy” type). Foreign women on the other hand are about family, faith, and security. Because of this difference, foreign woman prefer men who are more "mature" and "settled" and “responsible minded” in terms of creating a healthy home and family environment that younger men just aren’t as well suited for. Generally speaking, foreign women have no interest in the seductive “bad boy” types and will actually kick these ‘player’ types to the curb.This is good news for older men seeking foreign partners for marriage.
- They are generally more mature and of refined character The majority of girls in many foreign countries have been working since their mid-teens, not for the purpose of buying the latest fashions, but to contribute to their immediate family's total income. They know what it is to struggle and many have endured financial hardships often brought on by natural disasters. This has molded and shaped their personalities . As a result of this, their work ethic is strong and you will find that the majority of these girls are very responsible for their age. With responsibility comes maturity. You will be pleasantly surprised at a foreign girl's level of thoughtfulness and maturity regardless of her age. For example, I once recieved this beautiful email from a woman in Columbia as follows, "It is God and life that taught me how little I really need to be happy and sometimes I feel that I learned a lot from my suffering. I had lost loved ones that give me a large, very deep sadness, loneliness and much hurt but I thank God for what I have and what I have been able to enjoy in my life".
- They are much easier to please. Foreign women do not come with any preset expectations. They do not have a “what do you bring to the table” mindset like many American women of today do. Many men find this difference in attitude liberating and refreshing. Foreign women do not fall prey to the consumer- driven mindset that many Americans have been indoctrinated into, and to be fair, both men and woman in that regard. They’ve grow up disclipined and learn to get by on much less. There are no spoiled entitlement attitudes which is so common in the US. They’ve learned the value of a dollar. They’ve had to sacrifice throughout their life and in doing so, their character has been refined resulting in a less materialistic, more patient, and a more tolerant individual. They’ve learned to cherish and care about the things that really matter in life. On the other hand, many men find it hard to please American women who have become
accustomed to a certain level of material wealth.
- They still believe in old fashioned romance. The kind of romance you see in films from the 50's and 60's still exists in the minds and hearts of foreign women - whereas modern American women see that kind of romance as an unrealistic and outdated fantasy (obviously because it doesn't exist in their hearts anymore). Foreign women still carry a certain purity and innocence in their hearts and spirits that is open to old fashioned romance. This is good news if you are a guy who still believes in and longs for old fashioned romance.
- They are generally more compassionate and empathetic. "Poor people are quicker than middle-class or rich individuals to recognize the suffering of others and to show compassion,” according to a new study. “These results indicate that there's a culture of compassion and cooperation among lower-class individuals that may be born out of threats to their well-being", study author and social psychologist Jennifer Stellar said in a university news release. She further states "Upper-class individuals appear to be more self-focused”
Winston WU of www.happierabroad.com provides this explanation which I personally believe is 100% accurate:
"The poor are unspoiled and dependent, so they often have to cultivate good inner qualities in their personalities and behaviors to get what they need, and to compensate for their lack of material assets, especially since they depend on interdependent relations with others. In other words, they have learned to treat others nicely to get ahead, whereas Western women do not need to and can get away with treating others bad due to their overly high entitlement status. So that’s another reason why poor people are nicer. So because of this, their character being developed differently than ours."
- They are great homemakers. Most foreign women love to cook for their husband and family. Foreign women don’t see these types of acts as burdens or slave like behaviours as many (though not all) American woman do. On the contrary, they see these types of acts as privileges that solidifies their roles within the family as nurturing caregiver and this brings them joy and happiness.
- Nice guys finish first! Nice guys are appreciated and desired. However, in America, being a nice guy is often viewed as an “unattractive weakness” to be stepped on or taken advantage of. In the “research” and “thesis” secions of this site, see documented quotes from Dr Laura Schlessinger
and other experts agreeing with this anti nice guy culture within the US dating scene. (Now I don't know
about you, but when niceness is not appreciated but used against men, I think it speaks volumes about how
screwed up and dysfunctional the dating culture is in the U.S.)
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